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About Us
I Didn’t Just Burn Out — I Burned the Whole Damn Playbook.
Now I help others rise from the ashes of systems, stories, and survival strategies that no longer serve.
Hey, I’m Trish.
I’m not here to fix you. I’m not here to tell you how to be more successful, spiritual, or productive. I’m here because I know what it’s like to lose yourself — and fight like hell to come back.
I’ve been the soldier, the corporate leader, the mom holding it all together while everything fell apart.
I’ve been through abuse, divorce, burnout, NICU stays, layoffs, and identity collapse — twice.
I’ve parented queer and trans kids while healing from my own trauma.
I’ve led teams of hundreds and rebuilt families from scratch.
So when I tell you I understand what it means to be in the middle of the fire — I mean it.
But I also know what it means to rise.
What I Believe:
- You don’t need to be more resilient — you need space to rest.
- You don’t need more goals — you need to remember who the hell you are.
- You don’t need another coach — you need someone who won’t flinch when it gets messy.
- You don’t need to be empowered — you need to be witnessed.
- Your softness is not a weakness. Your rage is not too much. Your grief is sacred.
Why ‘The Anti-Coach’?
Because I got tired of systems that treated healing like a funnel and growth like a spreadsheet.
Because I saw too many people leaving therapy, coaching, and corporate programs more confused and contorted than when they began.
Because the traditional path never made room for people like us.
The Anti-Coach is my rebellion — and my return.
It’s where sacred truth meets strategy. Where grief and grit hold hands. Where your whole self is finally welcome.
What You Can Expect from Me
- Raw honesty (with love)
- Rituals, laughter, F-bombs, and awkward silence
- Deep respect for your inner wisdom
- A fierce refusal to pretend this isn’t hard
- Practical tools you’ll actually use
- Space to feel what you’ve been avoiding — and finally, move forward
Credentials That Matter (and Some That Don’t):
✔ 20+ years navigating complex systems — from military to motherhood to tech
✔ Trauma-informed, neurodivergent, and deeply intuitive
✔ Life and Enterprise Coaching Certified
✘ I won’t try to optimize you
✘ I won’t pretend to be your guru
✘ I won’t ever tell you to “just be positive"
Fun Facts (Because Yes, I’m Still Human):
🌎 I’ve moved across the world more than once (hello, Japan).
🧠 I’m a manifesting generator 4/6 who sees the world in metaphors and truths.
🧒 I’ve got a beautifully blended family of 5+ kids and one big-hearted husband who always makes me laugh.
🎙 I host a podcast, write fire-starter content, and love a good messy conversation about what it really means to heal
🔥 Ready to Unlearn Survival? 🔥
This isn’t just another list. It’s a slow burn into something true.
If you’re unlearning survival, reclaiming your wholeness, or just tired of being who the world told you to be—this is your invitation.
✨ Join Kindling to get personal letters, behind-the-scenes truths, and first access to retreats, experiments, and offerings that won’t live on social.
The spark is here. The fire’s coming.